Phillips Exeter Academy - Review #25

This has probably been repeated ad nauseum, but without a doubt, the most unique part about Exeter is Harkness. There's really something to be said about being able to interact with all twelve (or however many) of your classmates at the same time, whether you talk a lot or not. Harkness isn't going to teach you to memorize facts or ace the AP exams, but by the time I graduated from Exeter, I was 10 times more articulate, confident, and conscientious than I was when I first arrived as a freshman.

There is no doubt in my mind that Exeter shaped me into the person I am today. You will grow so much in your four years here - just look at the new freshmen vs. the graduating seniors : ) It's not just an age thing, either - I know it sounds cliche, but you will find out who you are as a person here.

DO focus on your academics. I slacked off quite a bit at the end of my sophomore year.

Besides academics, I love the sense of unity and loyalty that Exeter fosters. There are times when you can't wait to get out (usually during finals) but you'll always miss it in the end. There's really no place else in the world quite like Exeter.

Be outgoing. Be friendly. Don't start drama. Don't overcharge your card at Grill!

The academics are very, very challenging, make no mistake about it. I wouldn't have it any other way though; Exeter taught me valuable time management and study skills. I never considered myself much of a math or science person, but Exeter managed to parse some enjoyment for me out of those subjects by making the classes more problem-solving orientated than memorization based. Without a doubt, my favorite classes were French and History. By the time I graduated, I was nearly fluent in the former and took a gap year in France before going on to college. You will learn so much in (almost) any history class you take.Also, there is virtually no competition. Kids here are genuinely willing to help each other out, because sooner or later you know you'll need help too.

The only non-club sport I played here was tennis. Competitive sports take up a large chunk of your free time, especially at the varsity level, so make sure you're dedicated. There are also a *ton* of club sports, so you can pick and choose.

Besides music, the arts scene isn't huge here, but DRAMAT is always popular. The one or two big productions we hold a year always sell out incredibly fast.

There really is something for everyone here, and starting a new club is pretty easy as long as you can generate enough interest around it. Our community service organization is huge, even though service isn't required here to graduate.

My dorm's rooms were bigger and better maintained than probably 95% of the dorms I saw while visiting colleges - no joke! The facilities are seriously awesome, and you will get to know your dormmates like family. Some dorms are closer than others, but you'll be able to find a group of friends within your dorm no matter what.

My parents were microwave-pizza and Ramen-with-broccoli type people, so I personally thought the food was awesome : )

Lots of cute (but EXPENSIVE) stores, buses to Walmart, Stop-and-Shaw's, and the mall on weekends. Not a ton of stuff to do, but then again you're not exactly at Exeter for the party scene. Loaf and Ladle is the best.

For a high school, Exeter is really not cliquey at all. Everyone here wants friends, so most people are genuinely friendly.